Tiredness Abounds

We went to watch our middle daughter play rugby, and to help out with some of the jobs involved in making a rugby match happen. For me, this comprised standing at the entrance of an overflow car park in a reflective orange tabard for an hour – in bitter cold and driving rain. My youngest daughter came with me and entertained in ways only she knows.

Oh, the fun we had counting cars into and out of the car park while trying to keep track of how full it had become. Who needs expensive video game machines to while away an hour?

After refuelling in the clubhouse, courtesy of a cup of tea in a paper cup and a sausage sandwich, we headed back out into the rain and watched the game – keeping the official match score sheet along the way.

Once the match finished – after having spent the better part of three hours in the rain, which had now seeped through coats, hats, gloves, scarves, sweaters, trousers and underwear – we helped with the clear-up too.

Something struck me while wandering back to our car. There were 18 kids in the team today. Potentially 36 parents. Less than a quarter of that number turned up, and of those only myself, my other half, and another mum helped with anything. Between us we set the pitch up, staffed the car parks, kept score, helped cook food for the players, and took the pitch back down. It didn’t occur to anybody else to help.

I thought many hands were supposed to make light work.

After getting home we stripped off the wet clothes and dug out fresh, warm, dry clothes before collapsing on the sofa with hot drinks. The washing machine has been running ever since.

We finally ate this evening at 8pm. Washing up was done by 9pm. Sunday has gone, and we’re all tired.

Somebody asked me earlier if I might be watching the “Superbowl”. I’ll be amazed if I’m still awake in half an hour, let alone the early hours of tomorrow morning.

3 replies on “Tiredness Abounds”

Oh goodness, it sounds like your team (league really) needs to be more organized and require more parental participation. That is horrible and shameful that so few parents helped out, but they all surely benefited from your efforts. I hate getting cold and wet like that. Glad you made it home and warm.

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When my children were in primary school the P and F introduced a compulsory levy for parents who did not complete a set number of hours volunteering at the school in some capacity. There was an uproar. Despite the fact that the same ten people had been carrying the fundraising efforts for years.

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You express a reality of life–20% do the work while 80% sit on the sidelines and watch the others work. It’s the same no matter what the occasion. Kudos to you two, though, for showing up and being there for your girls–that’s what they’ll remember. You being present and helping when no one else did. Makes you pretty specila.

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